Doing Me Better
Don’t you know that you yourselves are God’s temple and that God’s Spirit dwells in your midst?
1 Corinthians 3:16 (NIV)
As you nurture your spirituality, as you feed your faith, as you grow to understand your gifts, as you move to steward your anointing, to honor your ministry, to offer God your service, to render to Him your sacrifice, to lift to Him your praise, to offer to Him your worship—don’t be tempted to be different from those who handed down the Christian faith to you. You’re not going to grow any stronger without prayer, without the intake of Scripture, without worship, without witness, without testimony, without giving.
You are the temple of God and God dwells in your midst. You house the presence of the Spirit. The “temple” is not just describing the sanctuary; it’s including everything peripheral and attached to it. The courtyards, the auxiliary buildings—it all describes the temple, and it means the same thing for us: the dwelling place of God.
Nurturing a better you starts here: I am the dwelling place for God. More than God around me. More than celebrating that God is for me. More than offering my ideas for God. More than God shaping me, blessing me, using me, accepting my life, my offerings. More than my ministry. Larger than any of these is this truth: God dwells in me. This is why we have to love ourselves, care for ourselves, accept ourselves as we are even with all our specificities and peculiarities.
You house God’s Spirit. Your personality has to be shaped by this revelation. You are not just flesh and blood. You are not just hair, nails, and clothes. You are not just your car and your employment. You are not just your neighborhood and your square footage. You are God’s temple, which means you also have to guard who gets to traffic in and through your life.
You have to guard who gets to speak into your life.
You have to guard who gets to have a word that matters in your life.
Your purpose is defined by it.
Your thoughts have to always consider it.
You have to filter your every experience through it.
You have to consider everything based upon it.
You have to discern everything through this lens: you are God’s temple.
Responding to life’s hard hits is completely different when you see yourself as a temple of God. You carry conviction that you can survive anything, recover from anything, settle for what God intends, and believe God for everything. Do you better by seeing you better. You’ll start seeing yourself better by living with the conviction that you are the dwelling place for God.
Better by Counting the Cost
“Suppose one of you wants to build a tower. Won’t you first sit down and estimate the cost to see if you have enough money to complete it? For if you lay the foundation and are not able to finish it, everyone who sees it will ridicule you, saying, ‘This person began to build and wasn’t able to finish.’”
Luke 14:28-30 (NIV)
Every single person listening to Jesus when He said these words could resonate with them. He’s trying to teach them that spiritual growth is never a quick build. It’s not a speedy process. It’s not about cutting as many corners as one can with no attention to the building of a strong foundation and no estimation of the costs associated with it. To the contrary, Jesus is teaching that building a better life for yourself in Him is being intentional.
Building a powerful life for Christ is about estimating what it takes to live better for Him.
There is a cost to living spiritually whole and healthy. You don’t wake up in the morning with just a desire and a passion to be whole, holy, and complete. And then just because you desire it or are passionate about it, that doesn’t mean God is going to automatically deliver it to the front door of your emotionality. If you want to live whole and happy and healthy and holy, you are going to have to sit down and estimate the cost, because in order to achieve it, you are going to have to pay the cost.
Jesus is teaching that faith doesn’t grow without spiritual estimation, intentionality, internal quality control, self-restraint, and surrendered motives. You don’t grow holy by accident. You become holy by intentionality. And that intentionality always raises the reality of what it’s going to cost you. Being a better you comes with the spiritual discipline of estimating the cost of being a better you, estimating the cost of living as a powerful Christian.
What has to be sacrificed from your life? How do you develop love and desire for things God loves and desires? And how do you develop the courage to purge from your life the things that are displeasing to God? What do you do with your career goals? How do you address your financial appetites? What do you do about your attraction to things, your material acquisition, your mental conditioning, your emotional needs, and your health status?
The best word for “cost” from the original Greek word is “assess” or “budget.” To live a powerful life in Christ, it takes more than passion, more than desire, more than drive, more than worship. All of these are necessary, notwithstanding, but the one thing that cannot be ignored is the need to count the cost. Estimate what it’s going to take in order for you to get there and then surrender to living by that necessity that comes as a budget. Determine whether or not you can really show up and offer God all that is necessary.
Declaring Praises
But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God’s special possession, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light.
1 Peter 2:9 (NIV)
“Praises” can be seen in the same light as declarations or expressions in response to manifestations. The praises of God are our declarations of God’s graces toward us. We are called to declare how God has been dispensing grace to us, making us holy, consecrating us so that we can be used for His purpose, making us blameless, feeding our hope so that we can walk through tough seasons with perseverance. These are the kinds of graces that God has extended to you, inviting you out of darkness and into the light of His salvation.
This is what Peter means when he says you were called out of darkness into the light—so that you can declare the praises of God. We are called to turn people’s attention to Him.
You are called to advertise the powerful, meaningful, extraordinary things that God has done for you, the ways His graces have been dispensed to you. You live as God’s advertisement. You are God’s billboard. You are proof that He is worth surrendering to.
Peter suggests that there’s nothing wrong with your life being an advertisement. We all live advertising something. When God has brought you out of darkness into the light, He invites you to live your life as an advertisement of His acts and His attributes. You are called to live your life so as to turn people’s attention to God. What does your life cause people to pay attention to?
Ask yourself: How many people feel it a necessity to know Christ based on you as the advertisement? In fact, how many people would not even want to go to your church, pray to your God, or read your Bible based on how you advertise the Kingdom?
Declaring praise is us saying: Look at my life and let me tell you that when you look at me, you have to look at the cross. When you look at me, you have to look at the empty tomb. When you look at me, you have to look at miracles and blessings and forgiveness and answered prayer. All of these things are the only reason that I’m here.
It is not only the external display of your life, but helping people to have the right lens of interpretation for how God is dispensing graces in your life. You can’t let people in your life be like the three friends sitting around Job saying, “You must have sinned if your life turned out like this!” Job declares praise, saying, “You can make me doubt a lot of things, but you can’t make me doubt God because God’s graces have been dispensed to me in such elaborate fashion that I cannot doubt them. Whether the Lord God gives or the Lord God takes away, blessed be the name of the Lord.”
God’s Calling on Your Life
The one who calls you is faithful, and he will do it.
1 Thessalonians 5:24 (NIV)
God wants you to seek to grow in your calling, to mature it, to polish your gifts that are necessary for you to walk effectively in your calling.
Your calling is going to make life easy, but not because the call is a guarantee to success and prosperity, not because the call exempts you from being attacked by the enemy, not because the call makes you popular in the culture, but because the One who has called you is faithful.
You accept your calling and you nurture it because the God who has called you is dependable. If He said He’ll do it, then the weight of your call is on God. Everything you do to walk out your call is guaranteed by the faithfulness of God, and His faithfulness is perfect!
What does it mean when we talk about the faithfulness of God? It means you trust that God will never operate outside of His own character and that He is always going to be consistent. If God is always consistent, then we know salvation is always His chief aim. We know redemption is always available to everyone. We know His will predominates lived human experience. We know that God makes the choice to be on the side of the oppressed. He’ll never break His promise to you. He’ll never not love you. He’ll always want you to live your complete purpose. He'll always forgive your sin. He’ll always dispense gifts. He’ll always honor His covenant with us.
How might you think about your struggles, your current battles and stresses with this in mind and heart? You can stop telling yourself how hard the next season in your life is going to be, or how much sacrifice is being required of you. If what you believe about the faithfulness of God is heavily anchored and deeply convicted, then it doesn’t matter what you’re facing. You can pray to Him transparently and honestly, making confessions because you believe that God will always be consistent with you as part of His character. You know that His standard when dealing with you will always be based upon the obedient sacrifice of Jesus. And it is because of Jesus that God always sees you as justified.
It is God’s faithfulness that fuels our endurance. It is God’s faithfulness that makes you take the next step when you are fatigued from the previous step. It’s our belief in the faithfulness of God that helps us to know that we can get better and become more and be transformed in our hearts and minds.
Leaving It All Behind
The Lord had said to Abram, “Go from your country, your people and your father’s household to the land I will show you. I will make you into a great nation, and I will bless you; I will make your name great, and you will be a blessing.”
Genesis 12:1-2 (NIV)
Abraham, the first Hebrew patriarch, is introduced to us with the call God extends to his life. Scripture says that one day, the Eternal One called out to Abram. “Abram, get up and go. Leave your country, leave your relatives, leave your father’s home and travel to the land I will show you. Don’t worry, I will guide you there.”
Abram’s call included leaving behind everything he knew in order to honor God and to obey what God desired. Abram had to give up his place in his father’s household. He had to give up his political clout and forfeit his security. He was putting his survival, his identity, his prosperity, his future, his security all in the hands of God. Abram’s story, like most if not all others, suggests that God’s call on each of our lives will always mean some form of separation.
Whenever God calls us to whatever He calls us to, it is always going to necessitate giving something up, walking away from something certain, sacrificing the comfortable, risking our journey to the unknown into what is only known by God. There is always the need to be obedient, to lose every sense of perceived security, to intentionally only have obedience left and trust that God knows the way that we should go.
Sometimes, however, we want to negotiate with God to hold on to some of the things that make us feel secure.
- God, I’ll say yes to You, but can I preserve some of the investments that have served me?
- God, I’ll say yes to You, but can I keep the position and the title?
- God, I’ll say yes to You, but I’ve got some ideas and I have some certainties that have become cemented for me.
Our resistance is the reason it shocks us how obediently Abram responds to God’s call on his life. We don’t want to invest in our security, our success, or our happiness and then have to give it all up to answer God’s call.
God will stretch you in His call in your life to test you and see how much you are willing to trust Him. When it’s been proven that you obey and trust God in faith, no matter the insecurity or the departure from your plans, He may turn around and grace you with the very thing you were prepared to give up for Him. Why? Because Psalm 37 tells us that when you delight yourself in the Lord, He will give you the desires of your heart.
