Pacing Your Life
“To everything there is a season, a time for every purpose under heaven.”
Ecclesiastes 3:1
All of us are living ordered steps. We’re all the product of an eternal design. God is pacing our lives so that those ordered steps are always in sync with His sovereign will.
The question I want you to wrestle with this week is: What is your current discernment regarding the Lord’s pacing in this season of your life?
We often want God’s promises without God’s pacing. What do you do when God shows you the plan, but you don't like the pace?
We say, “I want it now. The pace feels too slow. It’s taking too long. It’s requiring too much sacrifice.
Timing matters, and our discernment of the Lord’s pacing is crucial. When is as important as what and how. Timing and speed are critical to walking with Christ. Sometimes God asks us to sprint into new opportunities. Sometimes He calls us to crawl slowly through struggle. Both can be holy when they match His will.
Here’s the tension we feel: We are told to run our race with patience, and yet we are also told to “be still and know that I am God.” Which is it—move or wait? The answer is found in intimacy. When you're supposed to run, God’s going to push you. And when you're supposed to go slow, God’s going to still you.
The wisdom of pacing is not in rushing ahead or dragging behind but in staying in step with the Lord. Wisdom is knowing when to step up, when to step back, when to step out, and when to step away.
The real question in every season of life is not just: What is God saying to me? The deeper question is: How is He pacing me right now?
When Stones Fall
“He who is without sin among you, let him throw a stone at her first.”
John 8:7
The scene is tense, heavy with shame and accusation. “Jesus, this woman was caught in the act of adultery, and the law of Moses prescribes that if caught, she should be stoned. But what do you say?” The leaders were not seeking justice, but attempting to lay a trap. If Jesus advocated mercy, He would contradict the law. If He approved stoning, He would contradict His message.
Jesus’ immediate response is to remain silent. He doesn't say anything right away. He instead stoops down on the ground, he begins to write in the dirt, forcing these would-be trappers to wait and repeat their question over and over again.
Then His words cut through: “Let him who is without sin go ahead and throw the first stone.” Hypocrisy was exposed. From the oldest to the youngest, stones fall… and one by one they leave, with the woman now left alone with Jesus.
Notice, His grace is not an excuse. It doesn’t minimize or dismiss sin. It names it, but then provides the way to move beyond it. “Where are your accusers?” He asks. She says, “Lord, there are none.” He essentially says, “Well, I'm not going to condemn you. This does not excuse your sin, but we have a resolution for it. The grace I’m giving to you is your opportunity to live better than sin.”
When the Lord gives you grace, it doesn't mean you got away with your sin. It means you got another chance. That’s the lesson of falling stones: mercy and accountability always go together. Jesus loves the sinner too much to leave her as she is.
And so the story ends not with blood, but with stones on the ground. The only sinless one chose not to condemn but to free.
When stones fall, mercy rises. When stones fall, we are invited to live closer to the will of God—not pardoned to remain the same, but empowered to walk in freedom.
Faith the Facts
“Then He saw them straining at rowing, for the wind was against them. Now about the fourth watch of the night He came to them, walking on the sea, and would have passed them by. And when they saw Him walking on the sea, they supposed it was a ghost, and cried out; for they all saw Him and were troubled. But immediately He talked with them and said to them, ‘Be of good cheer! It is I; do not be afraid.’ Then He went up into the boat to them, and the wind ceased.”
Mark 6:48–51 (NKJV)
Jesus sent His disciples ahead of Him across the lake. They obeyed, but halfway through their trip, a storm rose up and pinned them in place. They rowed with all their might, expending every ounce of effort, and still got nowhere. Stuck in the middle, they were exhausted, frustrated, and spiritually vulnerable.
Jesus, meanwhile, was praying on the mountain, but He saw them straining. He knew what they were facing. And He chose that moment, in the middle of their fear, to walk out to them on the water. His miracle was not only about showing power over nature, but about showing His presence in their storm.
The disciples’ reaction? Panic. Instead of recognizing Him, they assumed the worst: “It’s a ghost!” Fatigue and fear had warped their interpretation of reality. How quickly we do the same when stuck in the middle between where we’ve been and where we hope to go. The job search that drags on. The relationship that doesn’t heal. The bills that never seem to diminish. We strain, but we stay stuck. And in that middle space, fear can twist our vision, convincing us God is absent when He is actually closer than ever.
Here’s the encouragement: faith the facts. Before letting fear dictate your response, interrogate your assumptions. Is this really the end? Has God really abandoned me? Or could this be the very place He is showing His strength?
The fact is, He is always with you. The fact is, He has already carried you through storms before. The fact is, nothing is impossible for Him.
So when the middle feels endless, faith the facts. Jesus still comes walking across the waves. And when He climbs into your boat, the wind ceases.
A Happy Heart
Nehemiah said, “Go and enjoy choice food and sweet drinks, and send some to those who have nothing prepared. This day is holy to our Lord. Do not grieve, for the joy of the Lord is your strength.”
Nehemiah 8:10 (NIV)
Your strength does not come from a restored life. Your strength does not come from praise-filled rejoicing. Your strength comes from the Lord, and only in the Lord can you find joy. You’re going to need this truth because antagonism toward you will never stop.
The threats will persist. Life will keep balancing you with a diet of joy and sorrow. But the joy of the Lord is where you’ll find strength.
Nehemiah is saying: You don’t have joy because you rebuilt walls. You don’t have joy because you are attempting to rebuild lives. You have joy because the Lord has made you a fortress to ensure your safety. That safety is not in the walls. Your safety is in your God.
Jerusalem’s walls were thought to be impenetrable when they were constructed, and then the Babylonians laid them in ruins. Now, the difference between the ruins of the walls that caused your exile and the restoration and rebuilding of the walls that signal your repentance is that this time, what secures your space is not how strong your walls are, but how mighty your God is.
And even if the walls are to be attacked again, your God is stronger in battle than all your enemies. So the lesson is simple. Nehemiah says, celebrate the day. Participate in joy and feasting. Resist any temptation to be gripped by regret and mourning. But only if you have learned to find your delight in your relationship with the Lord. Because your power, your force, your might, your resilience, your stamina, your endurance, and your fortitude come from the delight you have in the Lord.
Unbound
Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice!
Philippians 4:4 (NIV)
You can celebrate God every day, all day, and it’ll look like you are at a festive party making a lot of noise. Because while you can know everything is not all right with life, you know everything is right with God.
Read this again in another translation: “Most of all, friends, always, always rejoice in the Lord.” Paul comes behind it with double emphasis. What is abundantly clear in Paul’s instruction is that he’s not offering this as a suggestion. He’s not giving this out as a consideration. The way it is written, it is a command.
But why does God sometimes have to issue us commands even though He’s given to us free will? Here’s why: sometimes He takes your choice and tells you what He wants. Why? Because if He doesn’t make it a command, you would never choose it.
Most of us would not readily make the choice every day to respond to all life’s experiences with joy. But because God knows He’s working it for your good, He commands you to rejoice because you don’t even know you should say thank you, let alone rejoice! He makes it a command, which makes living with this kind of joy not always a choice, but an obedient response.
You are responding to God’s command when you rejoice always. You are responding to what pleases God with regard to your actions and reactions in life. You are responding to His presence in all the varied seasons of your life. You are responding to how compassionately He has received you, how intentionally He loves you, how surgically He corrects you, how responsibly He rescues you, how repetitively He forgives you, how completely He restores you, how consistently He blesses you, how providentially He leads you.
Your joy is a result of the feeling that you have the freedom to respond to God’s command in your life.
